In
remembrance of Eddie Garcia
It is with deep sadness that I
write to inform you that Sensei Eddie Garcia passed away at 3 am this
morning Friday, June 13, 2008.
Please join me expressing
sympathy to his wife Dolores and her family for their loss.
Sensei Garcia influenced us on
and off the karate deck with his spirit, energy and life. He will be
dearly missed.
Hanshi Robert Scaglione
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The Ueshiro Midtown Dojo lost one of its finest and most loyal members. Sensei Eddie Garcia passed away in his sleep on June 13, 2008, after a long battle against liver and lung disease.
Sensei's huge spirit reached into all corners of the USRKUSA organization.
His belief in the philosophy and traditions of our style was unshakable. I am profoundly moved by the show of support from the Midtown deshi towards the Garcia family
during Sensei's illness. My memories of Sensei in his final year are inextricably woven with memories of your loving and helpful care. Domo arigato
for your sincerest commitment to Sensei - one that extended far beyond the walls of the dojo.
Sensei
Garcia radiated a love of life that comes only to those who have
miraculously survived the world of street violence and addiction. No day went by
unappreciated; no student left untouched, no opportunity to leave a
positive mark passed by. Sensei aspired to follow the seven
virtues of the warrior. Foremost was Benevolence. His
magnetic personality drew in friends while drawing out the "Can
do!" spirit in all of us. Sensei's
story teaches that life is not to be merely survived. It is an evolving adventure
to be lived until one's final breath. For this lesson, we owe Sensei Garcia an enormous
debt of gratitude.
Kyoshi Michael
Mackay
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I have had the pleasure and
honor to learn from Sensei Garcia. During my training with him, he asked
me many times to translate words for him in Japanese but it was very
hard to translate his humor into words that made sense. I will always
remember his sense of humor and conviction to support the traditions of our
school.
In Japanese custom, we light incense to help the spirits of the
deceased find the places of their fondest memories. I hope
that we can light some incense in the dojo to let Sensei know his life has truly touched the hearts
of his students, instructors and
friends. The burning of incense for those who have passed is called Oshooko. When we burn the incense, it tells the spirit
it can
come visit, that it is always welcomed here. I believe the dojo is the
perfect place for Sensei Garcia to find!
Sam Suzuki
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Sensei Garcia has left an
indelible mark on the hearts and souls of
everyone who came into contact with him. His spirit and tenacity were
larger than life.
I found a quite moment this
afternoon to sit by myself and reflect on this wonderful man. As I
started to reminisce I could practically see Sensei on the deck,
firing up the class with his enthusiasm, telling everyone to "hit
hard" and "extend the line!" His philosophical thoughts
and expressions gave everyone a “window to his soul.” You knew what
kind of person he was and how much he wanted to give to others. What an
honor to have known him and to have shared in his zest for life.
Sensei Garcia will be missed -
we miss him already. But we all know what he is telling us now -
"Keep moving forward."
John Bottega
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I am honored to have known
Sensei Garcia as a regular attendee of his Friday class for some
time. Sensei filled us with so much of his karate knowledge and more
importantly he gave to us his life's knowledge. Growing up in Hell's
Kitchen, Sensei had endless stories of fighting, loving and laughing. We
would always joke that his stories were embellished but we didn't care
because he made us laugh and we loved to hear them.
A few months back when
Sensei's illness was made public, a few of us delivered a poster of
Eddie to him and Dolores. You should of seen Sensei's face. He lit up
light a firecracker. He couldn't believe everyone signed it. The
remarkable thing about the visit was that while we went there to give Sensei a gift,
it was us who left with gifts. Sensei gave us each a book. They were
part of his Martial Arts collection. Mine was The
Way of the Warrior. That title sums up who Sensei Eddie
Garicia was and how he will remain in our hearts. Sensei Garcia was a giver. He
kept giving to the very end.
"BIG MAN WALKING KNOWS NO
GATE" was Sensei's favorite quote. I am humbled to pass
along a little something of who this man truly was.
Jonathan Cohen
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I know we will all miss Sensei
Garcia so much at the Northampton Dojo. He rarely missed an opportunity
to visit here despite the distance, and was always so courteous and
appreciative of those opportunities, as if we were doing him an honor
rather than the other way around. I always enjoyed the metaphors he came
up with on the deck.
Sensei Garcia had such a way
with the ladies, too - and always loved Dolores more than life itself. A
true gentleman.
Mary McKitrick
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Sensei Garcia was one of the
most dedicated individuals in all aspects of his life. We have lost a great
friend and brother.
I want to share my most recent
experience with Sensei when I phoned him at the hospital. I
simply called to see how he was doing, as I am sure it was not an easy
time for him. He did not dwell on his own situation for very long, and
proceeded to ask me about the new club I just formed. I told him it
was quite challenging, but he proceeded to reassure me to stick with it and
gave me some incredibly brilliant advice. He guided me in a very
nurturing and loving way that I will appreciate for the rest of my days.
Sensei was never selfish even in his most trying hour.
Boris Grossman
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Words can not express the
sadness I feel today with the passing of Sensei Garcia. Just about every
Sunday for the last five years Sensei Garcia would phone me to
"Check in." But several Sundays came and went and I
didn't hear from him. Then the post announcing he was hospitalized. I
contacted Kyoshi Seeger for the hospital telephone number and called him right away.
He sounded like the "good
old" Sensei Garcia that we all knew and loved. First he apologized
for not calling. Then he asked about me, my daughter, how work was going
and even threw in instruction on several kata and told me to practice
the bo every day. He finished the conversation as always with,
"When are you coming to NY?" Even at his most ill he was
concerned about someone else. As it turns out, that was to be our last
conversation. Sundays for me will never be the same.
Sensei Garcia was a great man
with an even greater spirit. I am a better person for having known him.
Edye Harkenrider
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I will never forget you.
I will always cherish the times I spent with you on and off our spirited
Karate decks, on road trips with Hanshi, sharing hotel rooms, sharing
meals, sharing stories, sharing laughs, and sharing Life which you
filled with Joy and Vigor for us all. You taught me the meaning of the
word "Magnanimous." You embody this word. I look forward to
continuing the learning and training with your spirit and energy.
Onegai-Shimasu...
David Tamir
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Even though I did not have the
fortune of knowing Sensei Garcia as well as many of you, I am greatly
saddened at the loss of our fellow karateka. Thank you,
Sensei, all
for your memories. I will truly miss your poetic corrections, the sugar
that I am blessed to have received. I will miss your friendly face,
encouragement, humor, kind spirit, and (most of all) your warm smile.
Keith Eng
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Sensei Garcia was one of the
few people in my life who never saw a gate in any path that he didn't
want
to take. He never let age stop him from starting karate in his mid
40's. No matter what time of the day, he always was out recruiting new
students to the dojo. And most importantly, he never let mean
people crush his spirit to keep coming to the dojo.
My
first year Chinese history
teacher at Mt. Holyoke told me something in class I will
never forget: "They say that you aren't really dead until you've
been forgotten." Which is why I don't believe
Sensei Garcia ever will die. His spirit, teachings, and memories will
pass on from student to student, years and years from now. He will
always be remembered for his passion and dedication to karate, and even
years later we will still feel his spirit guiding us through class,
clapping his hands after each kata count.
Katie Roche
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Garcia Sensei was a legend, on
the deck and off, the true warrior, with true Bushi-do spirit. He lived
daily the creed, "Big Man Walking Knows No Gate." I knew this about
Garcia Sensei the first time I met him some 20 years ago. His street-wise persona and the martial way cut with a knife and bled love,
strength and compassion for all, especially anyone with a ear to learn
from his life-long stories and amazing personal quest. This
is the true essence of karate-do: to do it, show it, love it, live it,
be it - daily on the deck and off. To inspire people anywhere
and everywhere, at any time to better ourselves. To laugh, challenge
our minds, and be there for others with no motive other than to be a
shining light for all.
Arigato Garcia Sensei! You
lived the life you loved and loved the life you lived. I'm glad and
fortunate to have met you as I continue on the path.
Preston Powell
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You taught me so much about
the meaning of joy! Your enthusiasm for karate, for people, and for life
itself was positively infectious and seeped into the hearts of each
person crossing your path. Without fail, we could rely on you.
Whenever
Kyoshi Mackay or Kyoshi Baker would ask the group, "Does anyone
have anything to add?" Boy, did you ever have something to say! You
would speak up with a beaming smile and tell a story that we had usually
heard several times before. But you'd tell it like it was the first time!
The story would wander and you'd have us all laughing, regaling us with tales of your
life on the streets and tossing in random
metaphors in a way that only you could do.
And just as you
were often
first to speak, you were always the first to greet new visitors
wandering into the dojo. You'd be the first to break formation and walk
across the deck, demonstrating and teaching a new student. You were the
first to assemble small groups of kata before a big workout. Without ego
or bravado, you were the leader showing us the way.
You were always
so supportive
and reassuring. You made us all feel good about ourselves. It did not
matter the problem or obstacle, it would be overcome with certainty. A
big man walking knows no gate, indeed.
Larry Link
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As all of
us are, I am deeply
saddened by this extraordinary man's passing. He was largely responsible
for my stepping on to the deck ten years ago. His enthusiasm, joy and
vigor have obviously been a blessing to so many. I will never forget the
first time he demonstrated a double punch, exploding with
"BAM! BAM!" His dedication to karate and his
way of making each of us feel so special are gifts to remember and
treasure.
His spirit, so strong in life, will be with us each day as we remember him.
Lisa Harvey
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Today I gave the class three corrections: step big (A big walking knows no
gate), lengthen the
line, and hit HARD! I had received these corrections from Sensei
Garcia many times myself.
After class we told
Sensei Garcia stories. Some of us were speechless at the loss of such a
great warrior, while others tried the best they could to find words that
described the man who knew how to befriend everyone. One student told us the secret to his
surviving the 45th
Anniversary promotion. He said Sensei Garcia told him to simply
"Make a choice."
While Sensei Garcia often told long stories,
sometimes he kept it simple and just told it how it was. I wish I could
tell the perfect Sensei Garcia story, but there are so many. I will just
say I always felt great in his presence. He was and is larger than life.
Rob Neff
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Sensei Garcia was a light in
the dojo every time he was there. An
honorable and kind man with a relationship with everyone in the dojo
that was truly outstanding. Whether you were a new student or fellow
Sensei/life-long friend, Sensei Garcia brought warmth
with him which radiated in every class.
Stephen Day
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As others have mentioned,
"A Big Walking Know No Gate" was one of Sensei Garcia’s
favorite karate sayings. Sensei's walk along the Ueshiro Shorin-Ryu path
knew no gate and, knows no gate even today. His
walk was long in years (although we all wish that it would have lasted
many more) and it was broad. He shared our art with hundreds of
deshi now spread far and wide, as the testimonials that have poured in from
across the globe attest.
Emiliano Mazlen
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There is much I could say about fond memories I have of times
spent with Sensei Garcia: training, sharing or just talking on the phone. He was
not only a warrior spirit, but a real friend of the deepest level. What
strikes me most when I think of Eddie is that he was the living
definition of the word Sensei. He had the uncanny ability to see deep
inside of everyone and find the riches and value within.
Then he took the time and love to help each individual learn how to
cultivate and find the beauty of those values within themselves.
Shelley
Schlossberg
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When I first met Eddie I knew
right away he was a man of conviction and huge spirit. His tireless
effort and dedication on the deck was only matched by his genuine
compassion and big smile for anyone who crossed his path. He disarmed
you with kindness and sincerity. Eddie didn't come to the dojo to learn
to fight, for this was something he already knew well. He came to find
the light within and I believe he found it. He conquered the inner
struggle we all face in life and by example he poured that onto everyone
he came in contact with, on or off the deck.
Stars can go out but their
light shines forever. Eddie was such a star, and I will deeply miss him.
We have lost a brother but his light will shine on for all.
Lou Suffredini
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On behalf of the Garcia
family, I would like to thank the entire Shorin Ryu Karate community,
led by Hanshi Robert Scaglione, for all their letters, visits, phone
calls and other gestures of support in both word and deed during my
Eddie's illness. What Eddie loved most about karate - even more than the
skills and philosophy - was the people. You were his friends throughout,
and he embraced you with all his heart for your willingness to embrace
him. I don't know what we would have done without you.
Although the loss of Eddie is
unbearable, I believe his passing has brought all of us closer together.
And may we always keep Eddie close to our hearts.
With deepest gratitude,
Delores
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